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Following Second Nature as a Muslim
Following Second Nature as a Muslim
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Written by Anastasia
Updated over a week ago

Welcome to this guide, which we've developed as additional support for our Muslim members and their friends and family who are blending Second Nature guidance into their daily lives.

Here, we'll consider the importance of Islamic belief, tradition, and family and discuss the traditions of daily life, the holy month of Ramadan, and the Eid festivals, Eid Al Fitr and Eid Al Adha.

What is Islam?

For those who are reading this guide as an educational tool, Islam means "submission" or "surrender" to the Will of God and is derived from the root word "salam," which means peace.

Central to Islam is the prophet Mohammed (PBOH), the Holy Qur'an (the words of God spoken through the Angel Gabriel to Mohammed on Mount Hira), and the Hadith (the teachings of the prophet).

There are five pillars of Islam:

  • Shahadah: belief or confession of faith

  • Salat: worship in the form of prayer, five times daily: dawn prayer (fajr); after midday (dhuhr); afternoon (asr); dusk (maghrib); and nightfall (ishr)

  • Sawm: fasting during the holy month of Ramadan

  • Zakat: charitable giving, usually a percentage donation of salary (2.5 %)

  • Hajj: pilgrimage to Mecca at least once in a lifetime

The global population of Muslims is over 2 billion:

  • Currently, about 13% of the world's population of Muslims live in Indonesia, the largest Muslim-majority country, with 31% of Muslims living in South Asia.

  • 20% of the world's population of Muslims live in the Middle East and North Africa, where Islam is the dominant religion

  • 15% of the world's population of Muslims live in Sub-Saharan Africa and West Africa (primarily in Nigeria)

There are variations in how people from different countries live daily, the foods consumed, and how religious events are celebrated. However, the pillars of Islam remain the same.

Family is core to Islamic traditions. It's not uncommon for Muslim men's new wives to move into their husbands' parents' homes until they have their own families.

Respect for family members, particularly parents, parents-in-law, aunts and uncles, and elders, is a core value of Islam.

Mealtimes tend to be family affairs, particularly on the holy day (Friday), throughout the holy month of Ramadan and at Islamic celebrations such as Eid al Fitr and Eid al Adha.

Depending on who is present at these family events, it isn't uncommon for men and women to eat separately. In many countries, food is served on a mat, and family members sit at ground level, eating from one large dish, often using hands.

With all of this in mind, we've created the following recommendation.

Navigating Second Nature as a Muslim

There are some key considerations to navigating Second Nature as a Muslim:

  • Consider speaking to family members about your goals and what you aim to achieve through your dietary change. This will help you gain support from those preparing meals and reassure them that your changes won't impact family meals or events.

  • Consider what you could add to the table, e.g., a soup as a starter or additional vegetable dishes to bulk your plate/meal

  • If you're eating with your hands, consider how you can balance your food intake. For example, if your main meal is rice and meat (e.g. a Biryani), consider counting how many handfuls of rice you eat (approximately four balls of rice would equate to ¼ of a plate).

  • When considering a serving of dates, note that 3 (large) dates (approximately 30 g) are one serving of fruit

Ramadan

The holy month of Ramadan is the 9th month of the Islamic calendar and is directly followed by the celebratory festival Eid Al Fitr. It lasts for 29-30 days, depending on the sighting of the moon.

Muslims fast from dawn prayer (fajr) at sunrise to dusk prayer (maghrib) at sunset.

Fasting includes avoiding food, drink, cigarettes, listening to music, and impure thoughts. The fast is broken after the Maghrib prayer, typically with some dates and water.

During Ramadan, it isn't uncommon for people to stay up late into the night or all night.

In the final week of Ramadan, prayer through the night is common, particularly on Laylat Al Qadr, the holiest night, where prayer through the night is seen as the equivalent of thousands of hours of prayer.

Here is our guide with general tips for Ramadan.

Balancing your food intake during Ramadan

During Ramadan, it's important to be well-hydrated and nourished between dusk and dawn and to catch up on sleep during the daylight hours.

Souhour (early morning meal, ahead of fajr prayer):

  • Souhour in the Middle East and surrounding countries may consist of dishes such as sweet porridge, sutlac, balaleet or seviyan, or savoury greesh/harees or koksi, eggs, foul medames (beans) with yoghurt, thareed, bread, e.g. pastries, paratha, manakish or pancakes and labneh with zaatar or honey.

  • In Indonesia, Souhour may consist of Nasi Liwet, sweet porridge (Bubur ketan hitam) or kolak

  • Use Souhour as an opportunity to refuel and hydrate, eating hydrating foods and avoiding foods that are dehydrating (particularly salty foods)

Consider how to balance your Souhour plate:

  • Add nuts, seeds and fruit to your porridge or pancakes

  • Consider granola or muesli with yoghurt and fruit

  • Opt for a smoothie or chia pudding

  • Try protein-rich savoury options such as foul medames (bean stew), dhal, omelette, shakshuka, and poached or boiled eggs

  • Keep pastries and sweet bread to a minimum

  • Consider reducing the sugar content of traditional meals

  • Ensure you drink plenty of water and fluids and hydrate using foods (e.g., watermelon and vegetables) at this time so you're well-hydrated throughout the day.

Iftar

The 'Iftar' meal follows the Maghrib prayer. Each family may have its own Iftar food traditions.

We've put together a suggested 'Iftar meal' for you, which could also be used for Friday meals, Eid celebrations and other celebrations.

The following information has been collated to help you make the healthiest choices possible during this family meal. If you have specific questions, reach out to your health coach.

  • When planning your Iftar meal, consider what you want your plate to look like and ensure that all the components are available—this might involve adding some additional vegetable dishes to your menu

  • Think about the carbohydrate content of some of the dishes you prepare, e.g. stews - is it possible to add more protein and vegetables and less carbohydrates?

  • Start your Iftar meal with a large plate of various salads and soups (without bread)

  • As above, if you’re eating with your hands, consider how to balance your food intake. For example, if your main meal is rice and meat (e.g., a Biryani), consider counting how many handfuls of rice you eat (approximately four balls of rice would equate to ¼ of a plate). Remember, it's okay to have additional protein and vegetables if you’re still hungry.

  • There will be some foods that you particularly enjoy during Ramadan, so it's worth building a framework for how often you might enjoy these occasional foods, e.g., "I will have one piece of Halawa after my meal" or "I will enjoy Halawa three times weekly as this is my favourite dessert."

  • Rehydrate with water rather than sweet drinks such as sweet juices and Vimto. If you want to drink some juice, consider watering this down, e.g. 50 % water and 50 % juice as a guide. If you fancy a sweet drink, have this with your meal.

  • Once Iftar is over, consider moving away from sweet foods, or if you’re the host, consider putting these away and out of reach

  • Consider fruit as a dessert or snack option. You can find our guide on fruit here

  • Our Iftar recipes guide is mainly based on Middle Eastern recipes. For more recipe ideas, see the section below

Other considerations

  • Consider some light activities before Maghrib, such as yoga, a light jog, or a walk to the mosque

  • Following Iftar, a snack is usually served around 10-11 pm, although this may vary from family to family

  • Make the focus nourishing and hydrating yourself through the night

  • Consider a protein-rich snack at 10-11 pm

  • Think about how to factor in exercise following Iftar. This might involve going for a walk or organising a football game with friends.

  • When tired, we are more likely to eat high-carbohydrate and high-sugar foods. Consider sleep quality and consider creating a sleep framework that feels achievable with family commitments, which may include an afternoon nap.

  • Make sure you practise self-kindness and forgiveness when eating foods that are not typically a part of your balanced Second Nature food intake. Remember, it's okay to have any food on occasion.

  • Avoid the All-or-Nothing thinking trap (it's only for a month, a particular time of the year) and focus on long-term goals. It helps to separate the night into different sections, e.g., the Iftar meal, late-night snack, and Souhour. If one of these meals doesn't go according to plan, draw a line under it and move on. No two meals are connected.

  • Avoid the justification thinking trap (I have no control over the food served and am not responsible for food preparation). Ensure you advocate for your health goals by taking along foods you can eat to an Iftar meal or ensuring that your Iftar table contains all the ingredients needed to enjoy a healthy, balanced meal.

  • You might struggle to stop eating due to the abundance of 'special' food you consider a 'Ramadan treat'. If this is the case, try setting a framework that includes 'everyday' and 'occasional' choices, e.g. 'I will have dessert on four nights of the week and the other nights I will have fruit and yoghurt.'

  • It can be challenging trying to set boundaries with family 'feeders'. Don't fall into the trap of 'feeling that you can't say no'. Consider putting together some sentences to address this, e.g., 'I'm full, thanks, I'll try some in a little while', 'Thanks, but I'm watching my sugar intake', or 'I'm working on my relationship with food'.

Healthy habits during Eid

In Arabic, the word Eid means celebration. There are two Eids in the Islamic calendar—Eid al Fitr, which begins as Ramadan ends, and Eid al Adha, which is also known as the Feast of Sacrifice.

It honours Abraham's willingness to sacrifice his son, Ishmael, as an act of obedience to God's command. We have a general guide for Eid, which you can access here.

In addition to this, here are some specific tips for navigating Eid al Fitr and Eid Al Adha.

Eid al Fitr

Eid al Fitr follows Ramadan and falls on the first day of Shawwal in the Islamic calendar.

Eid al Fitr is a time for celebration with family and friends; it might feel like an opportunity to eat a wide range of foods to celebrate the end of Ramadan.

However, it's important to consider health goals and what we can take from Ramadan.

If you manage to focus on removing or reducing certain foods during Ramadan, think about extending this for another month.

Here are some top tips for you when putting together a meal plan for Eid:

Plan for a healthy, nutritious, protein-rich breakfast to follow the Eid prayer

Eid breakfast might typically consist of balaleet, sheer khurma or bouber (vermicelli with dates) or a sweet porridge, or it may consist of a savoury dish such as manakish, fatayer, a chickpea or meat curry or kheema, and bread dishes such as paratha and pakora, so think about what you can prepare that is a more nutritious version of these dishes, e.g:

  • Opt for a less sweet oat-based dish or add less sugar to the vermicelli

  • Add fruit, yoghurt, muesli, and granola to the breakfast table

  • Add vegetables to the kheema or curry and serve this with one piece of bread

  • Reduce bread options to 25 % of the meal, adding yoghurt or labneh and spinach to manakish and fatayah to make it more nutritious and filling

  • Consider an omelette, boiled eggs, scrambled eggs or another egg-based option such as shakshuka

  • If you think you will be hungry after breakfast and before your main Eid meal, consider preparing a healthy, protein-rich morning snack

  • You may want some traditional Eid al Fitr dishes - balance this with soup and salad for starters and lots of salad and vegetable dishes to accompany your main course

For your main Eid meal, consider what you would like your plate to look like and plan the meal accordingly:

  • Add extra meat and vegetables to your biryani, and reduce your rice intake

  • Opt for keema, haleem, tagines, curries, and stews that are predominantly meat, fish, paneer, lentil/chickpea, and vegetables, or make some vegetarian curries or stews/salounas to add to the table

  • Make a variety of chicken, beef, and lamb kebabs and shawarma and serve them with salad or vegetables rather than bread

  • Add a range of side dishes, including taboule, fattoush, moutabal, babaganoush, hummus, tzatziki, salads and cooked greens

  • Think about whether there is a dessert that you would enjoy. If nothing appeals but you want something sweet, consider mint or fruit tea or fruit and yoghurt.

  • If you want a dessert, limit sweet dessert options such as basbousa, kheer, shahi tukda, barfi, halwa, and baklava to a minimum and instead make some nut-stuffed dates coated in dark chocolate.

  • Follow your hunger cues throughout the meal and ensure you eat slowly and thoroughly chewing your food. Here is the Hunger Scale for you to utilise. Aim to stay between 4 and 6 at all times:


As Ramadan ends and Eid al Fitr begins, it's important to re-establish a regular sleeping pattern. To help with this, here are some of our top tips for a better sleep.

For the first couple of days, try to stay awake during daylight hours, taking a nap in the afternoon only if necessary.

Stop drinking caffeine after midday and put together a 'prepare for sleep' routine for the hour before bed that involves turning off the TV, taking a bath, reading, or listening to an audio book to help your circadian rhythm reprogramme itself.

Eid Al Adha

This festival falls on the 10th day of the holy month of Dhul Hijjah and lasts for three days. It is possible to eat a balanced diet while celebrating Eid al Adha.

Here are some examples of what your Eid Al Adha celebration plate may look like, with some tips for balancing your meal:

  • Consider starting your meal with soup or a plate of salads and dips such as moutabal, baba ganoush and hummus

  • If you're having goat or lamb as your main dish, consider making kebabs or curries, reducing the carb content of the dish, and adding extra vegetables wherever possible.

  • There are many delicious, adaptable Eid recipes on the BBC Food website

  • Enjoy meat and rice dishes such as kabsa/majboor, biryani or mansaf, by ensuring your plate is balanced with 25 % meat, 25 % rice, and 50 % of a range of delicious salads and vegetable dishes.

  • If you're eating with your hand, make balls of rice with equal parts meat and rice, and aim to have 4-6 of these, depending on the size of the ball

  • Be selective of your dessert choices. It's okay to enjoy something, but choose wisely, pick something you will enjoy, and eat it slowly and mindfully.

SN recipes

The following list of pork-free recipes has been selected for our Muslim members to utilise:

Recipes from the Middle East

Starters and salads

Meat dishes

Vegetarian dishes

Recipes from India

Meat dishes

Vegetarian dishes

Recipes from Indonesia/South-East and East Asia

Meat dishes

Vegetarian dishes

Recipes from Africa

Written by our health coach Kirstie Lawton

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